You’re gay
It might be hard for you to make a distinction between work and leisure, between client and lover.
It is important that you set some boundaries. Be aware of when you are having sex for work and when you are having sex because you want to. This is particularly hard if your client is spoiling you with presents and money. It is very easy to become dependent on a ‘sugar-daddy’ like that.
Sexually transmitted infections (HIV, STI) make no distinction between prostitution and your private life, between clients and lovers. Be aware of the fact that rules about safer-sex matter just as much in your private life as they do when you are working.
Working as an escort who has sex with men can sometimes be the first contact that you will have had with the gay world. This can often be the case for men who have come to Switzerland from countries where homosexuality is taboo. If you are in a situation like this and you start to lose your bearings, then go find some help or get some advice. You can find loads of information about gay life at:
